Wednesday, December 8, 2010

A Sense of Community






I'm going to start of by saying I am NOT a theologian. I have not taken theology classes or officially studied theology. Most of what I post regarding Scripture has been researched to the best of my ability when necessary. Everything I post regarding Scripture has been put on my heart for some reason. I believe that when a thought/Scripture sticks with you it's because the Holy Spirit is revealing something to you and I choose to use my blog to share that with others.

Today I post on Community. It seems broad right? Let me tell you how I got here and maybe it will make sense.

Stefan had a coworker that belongs to the Mormon Community. One night she and I got to talking about her beliefs (because learning about different faiths is AWESOME and I encourage you to always take that opportunity whether you "buy it" or not!) One thing she mentioned that stuck with me is the strong sense of community. In her faith, they try to do business with other Mormons whenever possible. (Especially small businesses) They also jump up and help each other out whenever they can. I found this really cool (for lack of a better word).

Recently I was reading a blog about a woman that grew up Amish. In one post she talks about a tradition in the Amish Community for new mothers: An unmarried woman comes to live with her and takes over housework and childcare so mom can focus on bonding with her new baby. Again, how cool is that?

This led to me thinking, "Why don't we see that in Christian Communities?" I know there's at least one reader out there thinking, "Well, in my church..." and I want to stop you there. That is EXACTLY what I'm talking about here. I'm sure that you'd lend a hand to a fellow church member. You know, someone you know well. What if it were someone you KNEW was a good Christian (let's say they attend a different church or even denomination); would you be as willing to help?

There's a Scripture that touches on this:
Now I plead with you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment.  1 Corinthians 1:10 (NKJV)


Now, I know it's easier (more convenient?) to worship with people that believe the same doctrine that you do. I get that. But, in the end, does it really matter that Church A believes in infant baptism and Church B doesn't? Isn't the big picture to raise that child to accept Christ? And further more, when did Jesus ever say that Christianity would be convenient?? Everything I've read talks about having troubles and being persecuted. We believe that when someone ridicules our faith. We believe it when our car breaks down on the way to an important meeting. We believe it when a family member becomes ill. But we go out of our way to worship with people that only believe EXACTLY how we believe. Churches divide over details all the time. I believe the term is "sacred cow." 


Now, there are some major differences between denominations. Some believe "once saved, always saved" and some believe that a single time of sin can make you lose your salvation. I can see that keeping people apart. Those aren't the kinds of things I'm talking about here. 



I think I'm rambling...


I recently found a great sermon on this exact thing. There are a few quotes I want to share.

An attitude will determine first of all, not a constitution, not a doctrine, but what is our attitude to life, what is our attitude to other believers, what is our attitude to the Lord Jesus Christ and His Lordship in my life - that will determine whether we are united or whether we are divided in the church!
Now people get this idea of Christian unity that we have to surrender our minds up to somebody else, that we have to give our wills over to some church leader, and we're not allowed to think any more for ourselves, and somebody else acts on our behalf. That is the thing of cults, strange Eastern religions, that is not the unity that Christ speaks of in His word - the unity in the Spirit. It's not some kind of dictatorship, but it is a unity nevertheless, but a unity that is based on the common leadership of the Lord Jesus Christ - a surrender not to a human being alone, but a surrender to Him, to His word, and to His Spirit as His Spirit guides us through the word to its precepts and principles.

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God doesn't give us the word of God and these standards on the basis of our human ability, He gives us commands, He gives us promises on the basis of divine provision. God never ever, right throughout the Scriptures, demotes His own standards and practices because of our human limitations, but He does the exact opposite: He provides the strength and the ability that we need to do what He commands - that is the miracle of salvation in Christ! He can make us into something by grace that we could never of ourselves ever be.


 Take a look at yourself and your church. Are there divisions within your church? Why? Is it over a major piece of theology or something trivial like where the pulpit should sit? Do you avoid supporting your fellow Christian only based on denomination? When was the last time you attended a fund-raising event for a church of a different denomination?

I'd love to hear your thoughts and host a respectful discussion!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

2011 Womans Day Planner . .(Life Planner) Giveaway!!!

There is a giveaway at the Homeschool Lounge (A great place by the way) for a FREE DAY PLANNER!

http://www.thehomeschoollounge.com/events/2011-womans-day-planner-life?rsvpConfirm=1#

Monday, December 6, 2010

Activity 5 and 6

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Sorry for no update yesterday! We were buying a house...yes, a house. We went to just talk to the guy and he showed us the PERFECT house. He offered to pay our reletting fee to get out of the apartment...if we bought that day. Honestly, there is no downside to this story! It's an awesome house. It has everything I wanted... hardwood floors, big kitchen, big bathroom, and a HUGE backyard.

So, there was no activity yesterday. We spent most of the day doing house buying stuff. To make up for it I'll list two things we did today.

Today we:

5) Put away laundry (seriously, he loves to do this)

6) Went for a walk. Franklin in his NEW stroller (so much better than the other one) and Mommy got some exercise.


Has anyone else been participating with me?

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Activity Three

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We spent the day out at the ranch where we buy our raw dairy.

That means today's activity was: Outdoor Play!

Franklin had a blast running through leaves and playing with some of the "toys" they have sitting around. He also got to pet the dogs (this child loves animals).

The photo quality is low because it's a phone picture...but at least there's a picture, right?

Friday, December 3, 2010

Activity Two


Franklin is 19.5 months old

Sorry this blog is coming so late! It's been a busy day (I had a chiropractor appointment today and we went to buy a carseat and stroller...after a bit of grocery shopping)

So, today's activity was a shapes puzzle.


After he mastered the small spaces activity (toothpicks in a salt shaker) we decided to get him something a bit more challenging. Yeah, that lasted about two days. Now he can complete the puzzle with minimal help. (Like, he knows where each piece goes and only needed my help to turn it just right for it to fit)

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Activity One



This morning our activity was unloading the dishwasher!

I didn't manage to get any photos, sorry!

Franklin stepped up and wanted to help me this morning. It originally started with him wanting to play with the silverware. So, we started saying "Thank you, Franklin" all excited and taking whatever he was holding. It didn't take long for him to get the idea. He started wanting to hand us silverware all the time (with the sharps removed of course) A few months ago he moved on to wanting to help with the rest of the bottom rack. I helped him "be careful" and use both hands and now he's a really great helper! (Especially considering that Mommy is getting too big to bend over successfully!)

As he gets taller we'll move on to the top rack. 

Now, he doesn't always want to help...but we don't pressure him. After all, we want this to remain something FUN. So, when we're unloading we always ask if he wants to help and bring him in the kitchen. If he stays, cool. If he leaves, that's cool too!

The key to this activity is patience. It takes twice as long to let your toddler help. (I get handed silverware one at a time usually) So, do this one on a day when you're not rushing!

What was your activity?

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

A Grinch Kind of Holiday


It's a running joke in my family about what a Grinch I am. No, I don't set out to ruin the holidays for others...I'm just not a fan. The holidays hold a lot of past pain for me. When I was living at home we didn't get along. The holidays meant no school. So, we were spending more time together...and fighting a lot more. One of my strongest memories of Christmas was a HUGE fight while being forced to put up the Christmas tree.

This year the holidays snuck up on me. I hate that. I can usually prepare for them but my pregnancy brain changed all that this year.

I ended up with a wakeup call from God...in the form of American Family Radio. Have you ever read/heard a Scripture 100 times only to have it mean something totally different on time 101? That's where I was this weekend on the car ride home from Thanksgiving.

John 16:33 reads: “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (NIV) Those are the words of Jesus. 


When I've read it in the past I focused on the very last part: "Take heart, I have overcome the world." It was uplifting and inspiring for me. This time I realized something else...stay with me.


The Word of God is true and God is always true to his word. When people talk about this they're usually referring to the uplifting parts. You know, healing and salvation and whatnot. I realized this weekend that it's not always the "positive" parts that fall into this. Read the Scripture again (the second half). 


In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.  

Did you catch it? Jesus told us that we'll have trouble in this world. It's spelled out right there. 

What does that mean? 


We're supposed to rejoice in God's truths, right? That means (you may not like this) we should rejoice when things get rough. Seriously. I'm not saying that God is sitting up there purposefully making things hard! I'm saying that sometimes He puts us through tough times to strengthen our faith. Have you heard the song "Praise You in This Storm" by Casting Crowns? It talks about praising God even during the hard times. I like this part:
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain,
"I'm with you"


There's another song I like called "Better Than a Hallelujah" by Amy Grant. The chorus goes like this:
We pour out our miseries
God just hears a melody
Beautiful, the mess we are
The honest cries of breaking hearts
Are better than a Hallelujah


Sometimes the most heartfelt things we say to God come out of hard times.

This holiday season I'm making an effort to thank God when I'm having a rough time. Thank him for being true to his word, even if I don't like it! Will you make that effort with me?

December 31 Day Challenge

'm challenging myself (and YOU of course) to join me this December in my challenge


What does this mean? Simple, if you have a toddler you come up with AT LEAST one activity a day in the month of December. No repeating activities during the month (you can use past activities but it's more fun to be creative)

Encourage your toddler to help around the house (it's funny how "chores" are "play" at this age)

Build fine motor skills with stacking activities or small spaces activities.

Build gross motor skills by running and throwing a ball back and forth.

Encourage creativity with music, dance, song, and art!

The list is endless.

If you decide to join me please LINK UP below and grab the button to put on your blog.





Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Toddler Update

Just an update on Franklin's learning progress. At 19.5 months old

Words he says:
- uh oh
- aww man!
- pe-ew (like something stinks)
- duh (dog)
- book
- booger
- mama
- dada
- good bye (when he thinks no one is listening)

He signs:
- more
- eat/want
- milk
- music
- bath
- shoes
- socks
- water
- go (like go out)
- love
- bed (bedtime) We're still working on this one...
- all done
- apple

He can identify (when asked):
- yellow
- head
- ears
- belly
- penis (he kept pointing so we told him what it was called)
- fingers/hand
- toes
- nose (sometimes)
- booty (Daddy taught him this one)

- he can blow a kiss, give a real kiss, and a hug
- he also waves and says "bye bye" sometimes (it comes out "my my" which is adorable)

He also understands "no" and can follow instructions like, "Give your bottle to Daddy" if he asks for milk and Daddy is in the kitchen.


I guess he's on track?

We also did a "small spaces" activity today. I gave him toothpicks and an empty salt shaker. The point was to put the toothpicks in the holes in the top. I thought it might give him at least a bit of difficulty at first. Nope, not this child. He had no problem with it...and I only had to show him ONCE.




I think we're going to learn "up" and "brush teeth" this week. "Up" would cut down on some of the whining!

Gratituesday: Kindness of Strangers

There's a special day at Heavenly Homemakers called Gratituesday. Basically, you take Tuesday to remember for what you're thankful. I'm joining this week!

A little bit of backstory for those joining that don't "know" me. My husband and I are in the red right now financially. We got there because our insurance doesn't pay for a midwife and I desperately want a homebirth. (And I refuse to go on base for medical care unless I absolutely have to) So, we've been paying her out of pocket. Praise God that she gave us a good price! Add in that our insurance also doesn't pay for a chiropractor (I've heard that sometimes you can see one on base...but that might just be for Airmen and not dependents) and we're buying raw dairy and more nutrient dense foods (read: stuff you can't really find at Walmart) and it all adds up.

We pay our bills and then live off of the credit card the rest of the month. This is not a practice I recommend! However, it's what we have to do at the moment. I meal plan, shop sales, and we've cut back on eating out and "fun" eating and whatnot. (It works out because it's healthier...) Every little bit we can save counts a ton.

Which brings me to my thankful post.

Today I'm grateful for the kindness of strangers.

Last night when we went to the grocery store Stefan was still in his uniform. (We left pretty quickly because we had two stops to make) While in line we noticed the manager pull our checker aside for a moment and then stand and watch her ring up our groceries. My first thought was that maybe she's new and being observed (I've been there and that's exactly what it looked like) When the groceries were rung up Stefan went to pay only to have the manager step in and say, "Someone is going to pay for your groceries in honor of your service. So, this is taken care of; you all have a good night." Honestly, it took a second for it to click. A perfect stranger paid for our groceries. That was $70 that we kind of don't have and ended up not having to spend. That was a good chunk of our food for the next two weeks that we got for free.

I have a post that will go up tomorrow about praising God even during the hard times. Check back tomorrow. I can't help but wonder if this was His way of blessing me/us for remembering to praise him...even when we don't want to...


1 John 3:17-18  (NCV) Suppose someone has enough to live and sees a brother or sister in need, but does not help. Then God's love is not living in that person. My children, we should love people not only with words and talk, but by our actions and true caring.



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