First, I suggest you read this post. (I LOVE this blog by the way) If you're feeling guilty about your house being a mess this blog will make you feel better. (At least, it did for me)
Today we're Getting Back To Basics
Make a list of the top Basic things that need to be done each day. I suggest: Load of Laundry, Load of Dishes, Load of Diapers (for those that use cloth!).
Now, make a list of things that need to be done each WEEK. Wipe down the bathroom, scrub a toilet, wipe a window, sweep the floor, wash your sheets.
What do your lists look like?